Adele
Gertrude Harsh was born in was born, August 10, 1917 on the family farm
on Squirrel Hollow Road in Glenhaven, WI to Leo and Margaret Harsh. The
farm and the town are on the banks of the Mississippi in Grant County.
She attended first grade in what was called 'the little brick school" just east of the farm. However, to prepare for her first communion in second grade, she lived with her maternal grandmother Helena Rauch, just across the road from St. Mary's Church in Glenhaven. She again attended the little brick school in grades 3 to 5 and in grade 6, she again attended St. Mary's School, walking several miles down the road, but often cutting across farm fields to shorten the distance.
She remembers her mother as often sitting by the stove and telling her and her siblings fanciful stories, though she could not remember any particular story. She moved with her family to Marshfield in 1930 where she attended Marshfield schools, graduating from McKinley High in 1935. The day after graduation, she enrolled in a city-funded training program at Purdy Jr. High for work at Weinbrenner, who had just moved to town. At Weinbrenner she was a "back shoe girl,; inspecting shoes as part of quality control. She wasn't the most popular person in the plant since every time she sent a shoe back, it meant the sewing operators had to redo them and as they were paid piece work, this cut into their earnings. She earned the sum of $10.00 a week. While money in the Harsh household was slim, Adele often dressed well by shopping; at good stores and then copying the designs and making them up herself. She recalled that during her high school years and perhaps after she would wrap her bust line with towels to flatten herself to be more in style. She met her future husband on Easter Sunday, April 12, 1936 when her and her older sister Marcella (Sally [Seimers]) went to dinner at Christy's Restaurant (now occupied by the Children's Shop). On the way home at the corner of 9th and Cedar, two friends Helen Riplinger and Stan Rochow asked them if they wanted to ride with them in a friend's Studebaker - owned and driven by Herb Johnson. Herb and Adele were engaged on Christmas Day 1937. Opening presents on that Christmas Morning, Adele had a box about a foot square, she opened it only to find another box, then another and then another, finally in a box less than 2 inches square, she came to her engagement diamond.
Adele was also active in many church related groups at St. John's, such as Rosary Altar Society, DCCW and the Foresters as well as a long association with Scouting. She also was one of the original members of the St. Joseph's Hospital Auxiliary. After the death of her husband, Herbert, she continued to live at 307 E. Third St., at first her daughter Anne lived with her, later her son Paul, but there were many years along. When asked why she never dated she replied; Your dad is a hard act to follow,; though she did admit to having had some offers.
Several times in the 17 years of living alone she would talk about selling
the house and moving to an apartment, but didn't until the spring of 1996
when she surprised her children by announcing that she planned to sell
the house. The occasion was the annual sibling only reunion on Palm Sunday
weekend. As a sign of this, she and the children toured the house, assigning
most everything to someone. She put the house on the market in May but
stayed there until after May 17th, which would have been she and Herbert
58th wedding anniversary. |
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MORE STORIES ABOUT ADELE
One winter day in about 1943 or 44 Adele was driving a Chevrolet coupe, a car that had only a single front bench seat and a shelf that extended to the rear window. She was going to visit her sister Bea with Barbara and Paul along with her in the car. Turning off of Country Line Road (now Macmillian Ave.) She headed down the very steep hill to cross the Angel Creek bridge. She lost control of the car and ran off the road into the snow bank in the ditch. Barb was sitting in the front seat and Paul was laying on the back shelf behind the seat. Needless to say, everyone went flying about the car. There were no injuries and the car suffered little if any damage. Wounded only was Adele pride. A neighbor of Bea came and pulled the car out of the ditch. Another car incident happened when the family was going to Grandma Harsch house. The car was a 1920's Buick High- Boy, which Herb had gotten to replace the Chev coupe. It was an old car due to the car shortage during the war. Crossing 4th Street, Adele encountered a city crew repaving the street. The old tar road had been broken up and mounded in the center. (This mound was further broken up, graded out and re-tared). The children in the car, Barb, Paul, Charlie, Dale and probably Susie Seimers shouted for her to take the mound, so she did. The car bounced and threw all the children around the car, several hitting the roof. Speaking of cars, one of the more unique vehicles the Johnson owned was a 1950 DeSoto Suburban. It was a stretched four door sedan and two-tone green. The car was purchased for the trip taken by the Johnson in 1954 to Virginia. Because of the size of the family it was kept. The car was very large, even by the standard of the day and used light truck tires. At 5 feet tall, Adele was barely visible when she drove it. Comment about town was when you saw a big green car coming with no driver, not to worry, it was only Adele. As a disciplinarian Adele was very different from many of her contemporaries. Many of her children will tell you that at other homes, mother often shouted at their children and often spanked. Paul can only remember being spanked once, and that was more of a swat. He, Charlie and Barb were bickering in the kitchen, as was their custom. Adele, many months pregnant with someone, came flying down the stairs and caught three butts with a single swipe. It is the only time in memory that see seemed to lose her cool. A more common form of correction or discipline was a softly spoken wish or thought. On the famous eastern trip, when the children were growing restless and beginning to get on Herb rather short fuse, Adele needed only to turn around and say that I think everyone should take a few moments of quiet.; Another example of this was with her grandchild Eric. Eric was not known to his parents as a child who took directions easily, usually arguing. One Christmas time when Eric and Aaron were visiting their father, he was making spaghetti. Wondering if she should use another dish, or take the spaghetti straight out of the cooking pan, she commented that That OK, Eric doing the dishes; When Eric wondered out loud about the arrangement, she just repeated, Eric doing the dishes.; That ended that and for the first time in over 25 years, Eric did dishes without a fuss. Adele was well known for her artistic ability. This extended even to the basement. She decorated each of the doors with pictures appropriate to the room's use (hobby room, fruit cellar, shower room, ironing board etc.) As well as painting vines twining up each of the poles in the basement. Much of the work was done on laundry days (with at least two children in diapers at this time, laundry days were frequent) Adele had an EZ spin washing machine which needed to be loaded often. She would take whatever children were at home and sit them in the teeter-babe or play pen, turn the radio to WLBL the state radio station, and even bring a coffee pot down and make a day of it. While growing up, the older children remember that Adele most often had the radio turned to WLBL, the state radio station from Auburndale. It featured classical music, lectures and reading. It was assumed that Adele preferred classical music. To many's surprise, later in life, Adele became very fond of Country and Western music. The car radio was tuned to a CAW station out of Eau Claire and her favorite TV program was Crooks & Chase on the Nashville Network. Adele was also a fan of documentaries watching ACE, Discovery and the History Channel. Although this eclectic taste is not surprising as Adele had a wide range of interests. Learning was one of those interests and she read voraciously, books, magazines and newspapers. One aspect of Adele that was often missed by many was her highly analytical nature. In groups, Adele often would say very little, but when she did speak, people listened to a carefully reasoned answer to any question. This nature surfaced most in the Hospital. There was nothing more aggravating to Adele than not being told, in detail, what was happening. Once, when a doctor explained what was happening to her son, Adele rose up and told the doctor that SHE WAS IN THE ROOM. Hospital stays is another source of Adele stories. Most, if not all of Adele's early stays in the hospital were related to child bearing, her later stays due to progressive illness. One of Adele's own stories was of the time she went to the hospital to give birth. The nurse on duty was told to prep; her. The nurse apparently felt that a woman just coming in was in the first stages of labor and didn't need immediate attention. Much to the nurse's chagrin, Adele was wheeled by her on the way to the delivery room. Sr. Emerica, the head of OB told the nurse, That Mrs. Johnson's 7th ( or 8th or so) child - by now she knows what she doing.; Another timing/birth story is the time when Frank and Roberta Cassidy were visiting. Roberta was the daughter of long time neighbor Mrs. Shepard. She, Frank, Adele and Herb were having coffee and conversation in the kitchen when Adele announced that it was time.; After telling the Cassidy's to relax and finish their coffee, Adele went up stairs and bathed. Herb remained with an increasingly nervous Frank and Roberta. Adele came down, bathed, dressed and carrying her suitcase. Herb then went and bathed while Adele entertained. Frank and Roberta kept looking at the clock and asking how Adele was doing. Fine; she would reply. When Herb made his appearance, it appeared to Frank and Roberta that they would be leaving. But first, Adele went around watering all of the plants, checking on the progress of childrens' homework, tucking in the youngest and so on. Finally Herb and Adele left the house, much to Frank and Roberta's relief. Sinking into the kitchen chairs and adjusting to their new role as Johnson babysitters they sighed a sigh of relief only to have Herb come back through the door. Forgot the paper!; said Herb. Now at about the end of their rope, Frank and Roberta only looked at each other for a while, then Frank remarked, After so many, they probably know what they're doing.; Adele went to the hospital in December of 1992. The doctor was afraid that her repaired artery may have been leaking. It turned out not to be true, but she was treated for anemia. She was scheduled to be released New Year's Day, but she prevailed on the doctor to release her New Year's Eve. Paul, who was living with her at the time, had a date for New Years and had mixed feelings. He felt that he should stay home with Adele. When he broached the subject she told him to go anyway, because she had plans to go out with the girls for a few drinks. When it came to aging, Adele never seemed to, at least in spirit. Her retirement from Rice-Rust was not voluntary. The pharmacy went out of business. When asked if she would get involved with the senior center, she replied that she wouldn't because there too many old folks there.; She was 72 at the time and older than many that the center. |
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